Paul’s Discipleship Strategy (Part I)

Paul’s discipleship strategy was very intense, personal, and emotional.  That is why it was also so effective.

One of the many passages where he expresses that strategy is found in 1 Thessalonians 2:1-19, where he expresses his deep affection for the Thessalonian believers.

I am pretty sure that if Paul read the title of this post it would seem so foreign to him to call this a ‘strategy’ because it was so personal to him.

Discipleship (Only) Happens on Sundays?!

As we all know and are probably familiar with, many of our modern attempts to disciple people into the life of Christ are failing. We, as the modern Church, often relegate the discipleship life to what we do on Sundays.  This would never have been able to fit into the ministry of Paul. He could not have even come close to accomplishing what he describes in this passage only on Sundays.

I recently heard from a mentor and friend that a very famous preacher said that, “discipleship happens during my sermons on Sundays!” Paul would have never thought this could, would, or should be a the starting and ending point of discipleship.

Paul’s Discipleship Strategy

As I read and exegeted Paul’s experience or ‘strategy’ of discipleship it blew me away how little of those things I actually did while discipling students for the past 8 years. I practiced only some of these aspects that Paul describes, and that is why it is very hard to leave a ministry. When you show a deep affection, your job then as a ministry leader becomes so personal. It is not a job anymore.

The following passage describes what I believe is the beginning of Paul’s discipleship strategy, not the whole of it but just the beginning.  Paul practiced these things with the Thessalonian believers and we have to as ourselves, “Does my discipleship strategy line up with his?”

For you yourselves knowbrothers and sisters, about our coming to you – it has not proven to be purposeless. But although we suffered earlier and were mistreated in Philippi, as you knowwe had the courage in our God to declare to you the gospel of God in spite of much opposition. 

For the appeal we make does not come from error or impurity or with deceit, but just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospelso we declare it, not to please people but Godwho examines our hearts. 

For we never appeared with flattering speechas you knownor with a pretext for greed – God is our witness  nor to seek glory from peopleeither from you or from others, although we could have imposed our weight as apostles of Christ; instead we became little children among you

Like a nursing mother caring for her own childrenwith such affection for you we were happy to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own livesbecause you had become dear to us. For you recallbrothers and sisters, our toil and drudgery: By working night and day so as not to impose a burden on any of youwe preached to you the gospel of God. 

You are witnessesand so is Godas to how holy and righteous and blameless our conduct was toward you who believe. As you knowwe treated each one of you as a father treats his own children, exhorting and encouraging you and insisting that you live in a way worthy of God who calls you to his own kingdom and his glory

And so we too constantly thank God that when you received God’s message that you heard from us, you accepted it not as a human message, but as it truly isGod’s messagewhich is at work among you who believe. For you became imitatorsbrothers and sisters, of God’s churches in Christ Jesus that are inJudeabecause you too suffered the same things from your own countrymen as they in fact did from the Jews, who killed both the Lord Jesus and the prophets and persecuted us severely. 

They are displeasing to God and are opposed to all peoplebecause they hinder us from speaking to the Gentiles so that they may be savedThus they constantly fill up their measure of sins, but wrath has come upon them completely.

But when we were separated from youbrothers and sistersfor a short time (in presencenot in affection) we became all the more fervent in our great desire to see you in person. For we wanted to come to you (IPaulin fact tried again and again) but Satan thwarted us

For who is our hope or joy or crown to boast of before our Lord Jesus at his coming? Is it not of course you?  

1 Thessalonians 2:1-19

Read Part 2 of this series here.

Read Part 3 of this series here.


Richard Moore has been preaching and communicating to youth since 1994. He is married to Simone and has 3 children, Ana, Lydia, and Caleb.  Richard is passionate about seeing an ever-increasing number of students come to know, worship, and obey Jesus authentically.  To connect with Richard click here.

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